S.O.B POWER RELATIONSHIPS

As an S.O.B. you must find the roadmap that works for you and use that formula over and over again. 

Who do you count as your best friends—male or female?  I’m sure that everyone is different with a different perspective but they also have your best interest at heart.  Who are the people you can share anything with who won’t judge you?

Associate with people who like to do various things so you can mix it up and experience all kinds of fun in different ways with many people.  You can have a lot of acquaintances and that’s important because it helps to have lots of contacts in diverse areas, but there will always be that special “group” whom you share your secrets with.

Some family relationships are terrific, while others are combative.  You decide the kind of relationship you want to have.  Set limits as to how much you want to see them, how many times you’ll baby sit, how often you may visit them if they’re in a different city and how long you’ll stay.  Remember, no one can take advantage of you without your permission.

When you stand up for your beliefs, you will not be taking advantage of.  These beliefs may not be popular but it’s how you live with yourself and your values.  This way, people will always respect your word and thought. 

Take control of your own life.  Never let anyone control you or your thoughts.  Certainly others can have an impact and influence, but you are in charge of your own life and you’re really an S.O.B. (which I know you are), you will find a way and not accept any excuses.  What is it you want to know and who can teach it to you?

You have the ability to make the world a much better place by everything you do.  It’s all in the choices you make, the decisions you reach and how you feel about yourself.  You have to learn to prioritize.  What is it you have to do every single day?  Although flexibility is great, there still has to be a semblance of order to your life. 

People will always try to push you into their mold, however they will admire and respect you for what you do and how you act.  When they know you mean business and believe in what you say by modeling it daily, they won’t try to take advantage of you. 

Ask yourself what three words you want to be known for.  Then you’ll know what kind of power relationships you want.